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Monday, May 8, 2017

Dating Advice 101

This is the best dating advice I've ever been given:
If you see a boy with a snapback, run.
If he wears a beanie, be careful.

Dating advice I'll give you:

If he has perfect classic slick-back hair that looks like this, get away.

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If he doesn't wear a hat, he's a maybe but watch out for how he styles his hair.
If he looks "too-good-to-be-true" or like a perfect Tumblr boy, run away.
If he is more than averagely fit, be careful.
If he talks to a lot of girls or posts lots of pictures with girls, don't pursue him.
If you don't like his friends, don't bother.
If you have a gut feeling that he is a jerk, run away and don't look back.
It's better to be alone than to be with the wrong person. I've had to learn a lot of these the hard way and it was not fun.
Learn from me and save yourself some heartbreak.

Sunday, April 2, 2017

Thought of the Day

I really want to quit Instagram, but it's so addictive! I feel like it's holding me back from living in the moment and it's making me a lot more dependent on my phone.


These girls inspire me because they are living truly in the moment and don't care about how many likes they get on their posts or what the right pictures are to post. I really wish I could be more like them.

Everyone is dependent on their phones. It makes me sad. I no longer want to be that person.

To be honest, the girls in K-on are my main trigger in wanting to quit. Maybe they'll inspire me to truly quit for good. The only drawback is that in 2017, it's really not practical at ALL to quit Instagram because people expect you to have one. I sort of don't want to live with that pressure.

When I attempted to quit Instagram once, I had bad withdrawal symptoms and I felt cut off. I'm scared to feel that way and going through that will be extremely hard. There are so many triggers around me, and I'm scared that I will miss out on something important if I quit. I know this is irrational, but it really isn't practical to quit, even if the world is heading towards the future.

To be honest, I'm sick of being dependent on Instagram and constantly seeing pictures of fake girls trying to be like Kylie Jenner every day. I'm sick of the world being fake and inorganic and filtering all of their pictures to be "perfect" and validate their self-worth online.

I really truly want to escape from that and make my vision a reality. It may be regressing, but I feel that this regression in technology may be worth it to me. It will help me keep my peace of mind and will make me happier.

I will miss being able to see people's profiles and be able to connect with them at the click of a button. I will miss seeing all of the beautiful art accounts that inspire me and the pictures of my loved ones. But at this point, I don't know if staying on Instagram is really worth it anymore. I don't think it is adding to my quality of life.

I regret joining Instagram. I wish I never joined. I miss eating a meal without being anxious that my cell phone is not by me. I miss not having the pressure to take a perfect picture for Instagram whenever I am out with friends. I miss it when people weren't so dependent on technology. I really do.

I fear by quitting, I'll not have as much fun with everyone because they will be on their phones the whole time. I'm scared people will judge me for not having an Instagram. But, I want to make this change in my life and I am determined to do it. I need to stick to my goals, take the plunge and make this change. I need to let go of any fears and just go for it.

I'm going to be doing a 30-day Instagram fast. I'm scared to do it, but I know I can do it. All I have to do it try.

Sunday, February 26, 2017

Love Live Sunshine!

So I heard today that Love Live Sunshine season 2 will be released in October!! Yessss!!ー( ´ ▽ ` )ノ

I'm trying to get myself to continue watching Heartcatch Precure, but it's so boring! I want to finish it though... T_T


At least the art style is good.


This picture is pretty cool. I had no idea this picture existed, even when I looked up the anime on Zerochan before!!
Maybe I'll set it as my screensaver.

We'll see~

See ya next time!

Saturday, February 18, 2017

I hate it when...

I hate it when people don't text with proper grammar. Does it really take THAT long to add a period at the end of your sentence?! To me, it comes off as "I don't care about you or the conversation that we're having", and just plain lazy. Proper grammar makes you look smarter, you know.
What is wrong with this society?!
To those who DO: Bless. Thank you for existing. I appreciate that you care enough to use proper grammar in your texts.

Sunday, February 5, 2017

Quitting Instagram?

I want to quit Instagram and not be so dependent on it anymore. I want to only check it twice a week or quit it altogether. It's too addicting, but I don't know where to start. It's possible, but it's so hard to quit!!(´_`)